Singapore Presidential Election 2011 (PE2011)

I will vote for someone who choose to do the job for us! A person with high integrity and honesty to guard Singapore reserve. A person with the courage to say NO to something that is not good for Singapore.

I have decided whom I should vote. He is the man that will unify Singapore. The person with a great heart and compassionate love for all Singaporean.

Thx, OKY

50% of our LIFE is made up of IF

We don't have to live till our last breath to appreciate this wisdom. For now, always cherish what you have and not trouble over what you don't have. And life will have less regret and less IF...

My 2 cents thought. OKY

The 5 Love languages (The secret to Love That Lasts)

The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman. I just bought this book. I am looking forward to further enhancing my relationship with my wife Sarah and my two daughters, Filomena and Cordelia. Here's the gist. Cheers OKY

Words of Affirmation Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten

Quality Time In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

Receiving Gifts Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures.

Acts of Service Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.

Physical Touch This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.